What To Do?
I remember in times of frustration how I would say, "Lord, I don't know what to do." Over time I learned those words, usually spoken after all else failed, brought victory.
When you give your baggage to God, circumstances (wrapped in His purpose for your life) change for the better.
You gain spiritual growth and spiritual growth strengthens your faith and your precious faith has you glorifying, honoring, and praising God for carrying you through the fire. And that is how Jesus wants to find you when He returns.
1 Peter 1:7 That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ.