The best believers can do is learn to rest in Jesus, to relax in the power of the Holy Spirit.
Let go of yourself. Close your eyes and see Him walk on water, calm the tempest, and roll back the Red Sea. See Him feed the multitude, call Lazarus forth from the grave, and rise victoriously from the tomb.
Now, watch as He conducts His business, tenderly carrying you through the hills and valleys of your life.
When we loose sight of ourselves and rest solely in The Lord, then we can totally surrender to His will.
Romans 12:1-2 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.